For the first dance

First dance wedding songs, and one written only for you two

Thirty songs couples keep choosing, sorted by feeling, with tips on tempo and timing. Or tell us how you met and we write one with your names in the chorus.

  • Two versions to compare
  • Hear it all before paying
  • From $34.99
Black-and-white photo of a bride and groom slow dancing under a canopy of glowing bulbs while their guests watch (AI photo, fictional people)

The list

Wedding first dance songs, sorted by feeling

Thirty songs that fill reception floors year after year, grouped by the mood they put in the room. Listen to a group together and notice which one makes you both go quiet.

  1. Black-and-white photo of a couple waltzing under a chandelier in an old ballroom, her long veil trailing (AI photo, fictional people)No. 1

    Timeless and slow

    Era
    1950s to 70s
    Pace
    Slow sway (Tempo 1 of 3)
    1. At Last · Etta James
    2. Can't Help Falling in Love · Elvis Presley
    3. La Vie en Rose · Louis Armstrong
    4. Unchained Melody · The Righteous Brothers
    5. Wonderful Tonight · Eric Clapton

    Best if you want grandparents singing along and photos that look like a film still.

  2. Black-and-white photo of a young couple swaying with foreheads touching under hanging bulbs in a brick loft (AI photo, fictional people)No. 2

    Modern and romantic

    Era
    2010s to now
    Pace
    Slow sway (Tempo 1 of 3)
    1. Perfect · Ed Sheeran
    2. All of Me · John Legend
    3. A Thousand Years · Christina Perri
    4. Say You Won't Let Go · James Arthur
    5. Die With a Smile · Lady Gaga & Bruno Mars

    Best if you want the song half the room already knows by heart.

  3. Black-and-white photo of a couple two-stepping in a barn strung with lights, her lace skirt flaring mid-twirl (AI photo, fictional people)No. 3

    Boots on the floor

    Era
    Country, 1999 to now
    Pace
    Easy two-step (Tempo 2 of 3)
    1. Tennessee Whiskey · Chris Stapleton
    2. Amazed · Lonestar
    3. Bless the Broken Road · Rascal Flatts
    4. Die a Happy Man · Thomas Rhett
    5. Speechless · Dan + Shay

    Best if it is a barn, a backyard or anywhere the boots stay on.

  4. Black-and-white photo of a couple dancing close in a candlelit supper club while a singer performs behind them (AI photo, fictional people)No. 4

    Close and soulful

    Era
    Soul and R&B, 1971 to now
    Pace
    Slow, with a groove (Tempo 2 of 3)
    1. Let's Stay Together · Al Green
    2. Ribbon in the Sky · Stevie Wonder
    3. Spend My Life with You · Eric Benét & Tamia
    4. Adorn · Miguel
    5. Best Part · Daniel Caesar & H.E.R.

    Best if you like a little rhythm in the slow dance and a live band is playing.

  5. Black-and-white photo of a bride being spun out laughing on a crowded dance floor under a mirror ball (AI photo, fictional people)No. 5

    Start the party

    Era
    Feel-good, any decade
    Pace
    Up-tempo (Tempo 3 of 3)
    1. Ain't No Mountain High Enough · Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrell
    2. Signed, Sealed, Delivered (I'm Yours) · Stevie Wonder
    3. September · Earth, Wind & Fire
    4. I Wanna Dance with Somebody · Whitney Houston
    5. Marry You · Bruno Mars

    Best if you would rather laugh than sway, or plan to switch songs halfway.

  6. Black-and-white photo of a barefoot couple dancing on the grass in a garden strung with fairy lights, her shoes in her hand (AI photo, fictional people)No. 6

    Quiet and unexpected

    Era
    Indie and acoustic
    Pace
    Gentle sway (Tempo 1 of 3)
    1. Bloom · The Paper Kites
    2. First Day of My Life · Bright Eyes
    3. Turning Page · Sleeping at Last
    4. Such Great Heights · Iron & Wine
    5. Yellow · Coldplay

    Best if you want something your guests have not heard at three other weddings this year.

Song titles and artists are listed for reference only; we are not affiliated with them.

None of them sounds quite like you two?

Every song above was written about somebody else. Yours can be about the night you met, the joke nobody else gets and the moment you knew.

Before the big night

Tempo, timing and the trim

The three things DJs and dance teachers ask couples about. Sort them out now and the first minute on the floor feels easy.

Pick a pace you can actually dance to

Tap along to the beat for fifteen seconds and multiply by four. That number, the BPM, tells you what kind of dance the song wants.

  1. Under 80 BPMThe swayHold on, step side to side, turn slowly. No lessons needed.
  2. 80 to 110 BPMSpin and dipRoom for a turn or two and a dip at the end. A slow waltz sits around here.
  3. Over 110 BPMChoreographyBig fun, but rehearse it, or start slow and let the DJ switch.

Trim it to about two and a half minutes

Most recorded songs run longer than a first dance needs. Couples usually dance alone for two to three minutes, so fade out after the second chorus.

A typical song, section by section
  1. Intro (0:15)
  2. Verse (0:35)
  3. Chorus (0:30)
  4. Verse (0:35)
  5. Chorus (0:30) · Fade here 2:25
  6. Bridge (0:25)
  7. Chorus (0:40)
  8. Outro (0:15)
  1. Rehearse in the real shoes

    Practice at least once in the shoes and the dress, or a skirt of the same length. A train changes every turn.

  2. Give the DJ a timestamp

    Not "cut it a bit early", but "fade out at 2:25 over about five seconds". Write it on the run sheet.

  3. Plan the hand-off

    Decide whether guests join you for the last chorus or the DJ goes straight into the next song.

  4. Bring a backup file

    Keep the MP3 on a phone, not only a streaming link. Venue Wi-Fi has ruined more first dances than two left feet.

Or skip the list

Dance to a song that sings your names

Tell us how you two happened and we write an original song around it: a slow ballad or something you can two-step to, a male or female voice, or a duet.

What goes into yours

  • How you met, in your own words
  • The details only you two would recognize
  • Both your names, sung in the chorus
Write our first dance song⁠
A couple slow dancing between tall shelves in a small bookshop after closing, she holds a poetry book against his back, rain on the window (AI photo, fictional people)

Listen to a real one

Ordinary Days

  • Ballad
  • Romantic
  • Female voice

Written on this site for a couple's tenth anniversary, not for a wedding. Listen for the slow, story-led build couples look for in a first dance.

Two lines from the last chorus
I'll choose you in the ordinaryThrough every grey and golden day
Play Ordinary Days
Ballad

Photo: AI illustration of a fictional couple. The song and its story are real.

From the dance floor

First dances to songs nobody had heard before

  • A couple practising a dance in socks in a small living room with the coffee table pushed aside, she counts steps laughing while he watches his feet (AI photo, fictional people)
    We learned the steps in our living room to a song with our dog's name in the second verse. The whole reception lost it at that line.
    Priya & SamWedding prep · Austin, TX
  • A groom in shirtsleeves points at a DJ's laptop at a reception while the DJ gives a thumbs up (AI photo, fictional people)
    Sent the MP3 to our DJ two weeks out. He said nobody had ever handed him a first dance song he had never heard.
    Marcus T.Reception · Columbus, OH
  • A guest's phone photo of a bride and groom slow dancing, seen past raised phones and shoulders (AI photo, fictional people)
    Half the room had their phones up. Nobody knew the words, so for once everybody actually listened.
    Hannah L.First dance
  • A woman in her late fifties at a reception table with her hand on her heart, crying and laughing as her husband hands her a napkin (AI photo, fictional people)
    He made it in secret and had the DJ play it after dinner. My mom heard my grandmother's name in the bridge and had to sit down.
    Alicia R.Surprise from the groom · San Diego, CA
  • A couple dancing on the grass in a backyard, she in a short white dress and sneakers, two kids running around them (AI photo, fictional people)
    Speaker on a camping chair, nieces running circles around us. Our own song made the lawn feel like a ballroom.
    Jordan & KelBackyard wedding · Asheville, NC
  • A newly married couple laughing and dancing on wide stone steps outside a civic building, she holds a small bouquet (AI photo, fictional people)
    No reception, no DJ. We played it from his jacket pocket on the steps outside city hall and danced anyway.
    Mei W.Courthouse wedding · Chicago, IL
  • A couple in their sixties dancing close with eyes closed in a restaurant's private room, family watching from a long table (AI photo, fictional people)
    Second time around for both of us. We wanted a song that was nobody else's, and it names all five grandkids.
    Linda G.Second wedding · Tucson, AZ
  • Newlyweds sharing a pair of earbuds in the back seat of a car at night, laughing with their eyes closed, a crumpled veil on her lap (AI photo, fictional people)
    Played it three more times in the car to the hotel. It is still the first thing on every Saturday morning.
    Ana & JoAfter the reception

How it works

From your story to the dance floor

Four steps, most of them done on a phone in the time it takes to drink a coffee.

  1. 5 min

    Tell us how you two happened

    Your names, how you met, the moment you knew and anything you want sung. Write it like a toast, not an essay.

  2. About 3 min

    Hear two full versions

    We write the lyrics, then record two complete takes in the style and voice you picked. Play both before deciding anything.

  3. Your call

    Shape it until it is yours

    Swap a line, slow it down, try a duet. Each change brings two new takes, and nothing is charged while you fine-tune.

  4. On the night

    Hand it to the DJ

    Pay once and download the MP3 for your DJ or band. Add photos and a note to the gift page if you want to share it with guests.

The price

One first dance song, written for two

Pay once, and only after both full versions have played.

Limited offer

First dance wedding song

Your first dance song

FromOffer price$34.99Regular price$69.98-50%

  • An original song for two
  • Two full takes
  • Lyrics you can tweak
  • MP3 for the DJ, MP4, lyrics PDF
  • Private page to share with guests
  • Optional streaming release
Write our first dance song⁠

Nothing is charged until you have heard it.

FAQ

First dance song questions

What couples ask us in the weeks before the wedding.

Can we really use it as our first dance song?

Yes. It is a complete song with verses and a chorus, and after payment you download it as an MP3 that plays on any speaker, DJ setup or phone.

How long will the song be, and can it be shorter?

You can't set an exact length, but you hear both versions in full before paying, so you know the running time. To dance for less, have the DJ fade out after the second chorus.

Can we give the file to our DJ or band?

Yes. Send the MP3 to your DJ. For a band or for singing it yourselves, add the instrumental version at checkout: the same song without the vocals, plus the lyrics PDF.

Our wedding is close. How fast is it?

The two versions are usually ready two to three minutes after you finish your story, and the files unlock as soon as you pay. Plenty of couples make theirs the week of the wedding.

Can it be a slow ballad, a two-step or a duet?

You choose the genre, a mood such as romantic, calm or danceable, and a male voice, a female voice or a duet. You can't ask for the style of a real artist, but you can describe the sound you want.

What if we don't love it?

Then don't pay. Rewrite a line, change the style or ask for a new melody and you get two new takes; the app shows how many rounds you have left. Once paid, purchases are final except as our refund policy describes.

Can one of us make it as a surprise?

Of course. Many grooms and brides make it secretly and give the MP3 to the DJ for after dinner, or schedule the private gift page to arrive on the wedding morning.

Can we use it in our wedding film and online?

Yes. Once you pay, we transfer our rights in your song to you, so you can play it at the venue, put it in your wedding video and share it on social media.

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Black-and-white photo of a bride and groom dancing alone under hundreds of string lights in a courtyard at night (AI photo, fictional people)

The first song of your marriage should be yours

A few honest sentences about how it started. A song you will hear again at every anniversary after this one.

Write our first dance song⁠

Both versions play in full before you pay