For the people who raised her

Songs for daughters, and one that sings her name

Daughter songs sorted by who is giving them, a plan for the father–daughter dance, or an original song written from your own stories about her.

  • Her name in the lyrics
  • Hear it before paying
  • From $34.99
Old family photo of a five-year-old girl in white socks standing on her father's feet as they dance in the living room (AI photo, fictional people)

Pressed and kept

Daughter songs, sorted by who is giving them

Thirty songs that parents keep returning to, five for each kind of moment, from the hospital blanket to the last slow song of the night. Titles and artists only; play them on whatever app you use.

  1. A pressed blush garden rose with two leaves taped to handmade paper like a herbarium sheet (AI photo)
    No. 01

    The father⁠–⁠daughter dance

    From DadRosa · garden rose

    Slow and steady enough to talk through. Most dads pick one of these for the opening minute, before any switch.

    1. My GirlThe Temptations
    2. Butterfly KissesBob Carlisle
    3. I Loved Her FirstHeartland
    4. UnforgettableNatalie Cole & Nat King Cole
    5. Daddy's Little GirlThe Mills Brothers
  2. Three pressed white daisies on thin stems taped to handmade paper like a herbarium sheet (AI photo)
    No. 02

    Watching her grow up

    From DadBellis · daisy

    Fathers singing about time moving too fast. Good for a birthday card, a long drive, or the night before a big change.

    1. DaughtersJohn Mayer
    2. It Won't Be Like This for LongDarius Rucker
    3. My Little GirlTim McGraw
    4. CinderellaSteven Curtis Chapman
    5. Father and DaughterPaul Simon
  3. A pressed sprig of lilac and pale pink sweet peas with curling tendrils taped to handmade paper (AI photo)
    No. 03

    From her mother

    From MomLathyrus · sweet pea

    Mothers watching a little girl become someone they would pick as a friend. Lovely on her birthday or the morning of her wedding.

    1. Slipping Through My FingersABBA
    2. In My Daughter's EyesMartina McBride
    3. Never Grow UpTaylor Swift
    4. RainbowKacey Musgraves
    5. WonderNatalie Merchant
  4. A pressed airy sprig of white baby's breath taped to handmade paper like a herbarium sheet (AI photo)
    No. 04

    Her first days

    From both of youGypsophila · baby's breath

    Quiet songs for the first weeks home, the 3 a.m. feed, and the first video you send the grandparents.

    1. Isn't She LovelyStevie Wonder
    2. Lullabye (Goodnight, My Angel)Billy Joel
    3. Here Comes the SunThe Beatles
    4. Taking You HomeDon Henley
    5. Dear TheodosiaLeslie Odom Jr. & Lin-Manuel Miranda
  5. A pressed apricot California poppy with feathery leaves and one bud taped to handmade paper (AI photo)
    No. 05

    Sixteen, eighteen, twenty-one

    From both of youEschscholzia · California poppy

    For big birthdays and a quinceañera: songs about standing tall, for a girl who is about to stop needing your opinion.

    1. BraveSara Bareilles
    2. Girl on FireAlicia Keys
    3. The ClimbMiley Cyrus
    4. How Far I'll GoAuli'i Cravalho
    5. This Is MeKeala Settle
  6. A pressed sprig of tiny sky-blue forget-me-nots taped to handmade paper like a herbarium sheet (AI photo)
    No. 06

    Graduation and leaving home

    From both of youMyosotis · forget-me-not

    For the drive to campus, the airport, the first apartment with her name on the lease. Songs that let her go and keep a light on.

    1. Ready, Set, Don't GoBilly Ray Cyrus
    2. There Goes My LifeKenny Chesney
    3. WildflowersTom Petty
    4. You're Gonna Miss ThisTrace Adkins
    5. Times of Your LifePaul Anka

Every song on this list was written about somebody else's girl.

Hers can carry her name, the nickname from when she was small, and the story that gets told at every holiday.

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The father–daughter dance

Planning the dance, minute by minute

It is the moment on this list people search for most, and the one with the most nerves attached. Here is how most receptions run it.

At a candlelit wedding reception a father in a gray suit spins his laughing daughter, the bride, under his raised arm while guests clap behind them (AI photo, fictional people)

A typical father–daughter dance

  1. 0:00

    He offers his hand

    The DJ calls it right after the couple's first dance. Tradition says Dad walks over and asks; plenty of brides cross the floor to get him.

  2. 0:15

    One slow song

    The part everyone films. Sway, talk, let him say the line he rehearsed in the car. Ninety seconds is plenty.

  3. 1:45

    The switch

    The DJ cuts or scratches into something upbeat. Practice one spin and one silly move; the room does the rest.

  4. 3:00

    Open the floor

    Wave the guests on, or hand Dad over to Mom. Stopping before four minutes keeps every phone pointed at you.

What fathers and brides actually ask

Who asks whom?
Either works. Old etiquette has the father ask; these days many brides walk over to him, which tends to make him tear up before the music even starts.
How long should it last?
Two to three minutes. A full ballad can run past four, so ask the DJ to fade it after the second chorus or at your switch point.
Slow, upbeat, or both?
Both, if he is nervous. A minute of slow song gives you the photos; the upbeat half takes the pressure off and gets the whole room laughing.
Do we need dance lessons?
Rarely. Fifteen minutes in the kitchen to practice the sway, one turn and the cue for the switch is enough. Practice in her wedding shoes.
What if Dad can't be there?
Dance with whoever stood in for him: a stepdad, a grandfather, a brother, an uncle or your mom. Some brides play his favorite song and dance with the person who misses him most.
When does it happen?
Usually straight after the couple's first dance, before or just after dinner. Some couples run it together with the mother–son dance and swap partners halfway.

Or write her own

Her song, built from what only you know

The thirty songs above were recorded for strangers. Hers can mention the night she was born, the name only you call her, and the promise you made at the hospital window.

What parents usually tell us

  • Her name, and the nickname from when she was small
  • One scene: the swing set, the recital, the first car
  • Something you want her to hear on a hard day
  • Who it is from: Dad, Mom, both of you, or the whole family
Write a song for my daughter⁠

Hear two finished songs first

Neither one was written for a daughter. Press play to hear how true details become verses, and listen for the moment a name is sung.

  • Ordinary Days

    Written for Emma, from her husband Daniel, on their tenth anniversary

    • Ballad
    • Romantic
    • Female voice
    Play Ordinary Days
    Ballad
  • Celebrate You, Maya

    Written for Maya, from her best friend, on her thirtieth birthday

    • Pop
    • Happy
    • Male voice
    Play Maya's song
    Pop

Real orders and real stories: each name you hear is the one its buyer typed in.

Parents of daughters

The moment she heard it

  • A father in a dark suit cries and laughs while dancing with his grinning daughter, the bride, as guests hold up phones at the edge of a ballroom (AI photo, fictional people)
    I can't sing and I can't dance. The song handled the first part. Halfway through she whispered, did you write this? I just nodded.
    Gary T.Father–daughter dance · Columbus, OH
  • A sixteen-year-old girl in a car's passenger seat covers her mouth, laughing and teary, while her father at the wheel glances over smiling (AI photo, fictional people)
    Her dad played it on the way to her driving test. She failed parallel parking and still calls it the best day of that month.
    Michelle R.16th birthday · Plano, TX
  • A tired young mother in a robe sits in a nursery armchair at night holding her sleeping newborn daughter against her chest (AI photo, fictional people)
    Made it one-thumbed during a 3 a.m. feed. Now it is the only thing that gets her back to sleep, and I still cry at the bridge.
    Priya S.New baby · Edison, NJ
  • A mother and her college-freshman daughter sit on a dorm-room floor among moving boxes sharing earbuds, both laughing and wiping tears (AI photo, fictional people)
    We shared earbuds on the floor of her dorm between the boxes. Her roommate walked in on two women sobbing and laughing and quietly backed out.
    Laura B.College move-in · Spokane, WA
  • A fifteen-year-old girl in a pale blue ball gown waltzes with her father in a dark suit at her quinceañera while family watches (AI photo, fictional people)
    We traded the waltz for her song. My mother, who never cries at anything, went to the DJ and asked for it a second time.
    Héctor V.Quinceañera · San Antonio, TX
  • A graduate in a plain dark gown hugs her father tightly on a school lawn, crying and laughing, while her mother holds up a phone (AI photo, fictional people)
    Her dad wanted to give a speech and knew he would fall apart, so we gave her a song. He fell apart anyway. She held on through the chorus.
    Dana K.Graduation · Madison, WI
  • A young woman at a kitchen table covers her face, laughing, while her parents lean in beside a birthday cake with lit candles (AI photo, fictional people)
    The verse about her teaching the dog to ride in the wagon got the big laugh. The last line got total silence, the good kind.
    Mark and Julie P.21st birthday · Fort Collins, CO
  • A woman in her late thirties on a sofa on Christmas morning presses a hand to her chest while her mother holds out a phone and a grandmother smiles nearby (AI photo, fictional people)
    My daughter is 38 with two kids of her own. I wanted her to know I still see the girl in the yellow raincoat. She knew by the first verse.
    Carol W.Christmas · Asheville, NC

How it works

From a few memories to her song

Nothing to agonize over. Most parents type their story on a phone in about ten minutes.

  1. Step 1

    Tell us who she is

    Her name, her age, the nickname, and a scene or two you still picture clearly. Write it the way you would tell a friend.

  2. Step 2

    Hear two takes

    Minutes later, two full versions play in the genre and voice you chose. Nothing has been charged at this point.

  3. Step 3

    Fine-tune it

    Rewrite a line, try a softer mood or another voice. Each round brings back two new takes to compare side by side.

  4. Step 4

    Give it to her

    Pay once, then send her the private gift page, schedule it for the big morning, or hand the MP3 to the DJ.

Pricing

One price for her whole song

No subscription and no deposit: you pay once, after both versions have played for you.

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Song for a daughter

Your daughter's own song

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  • Original lyrics about her
  • Two full versions to compare
  • Changes before you pay
  • MP3, lyric video and lyrics PDF
  • A private gift page for her photos
  • Optional streaming release
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FAQ

Questions parents of daughters ask

Usually in the week before the wedding, the birthday or the move.

Can we use it for the father–daughter dance?

Yes. Once you pay, you download an MP3 to hand to the DJ. You can't set an exact length, but you hear both versions all the way through first, and the DJ can fade it early or cut to your upbeat song at the switch.

Can it include her childhood nickname and family stories?

Please do. The lyrics are written from what you tell us, so the nickname, the recital, the dog she insisted on naming are what make it sound like her rather than a greeting card.

Can it be from Mom, from Dad, or from both of us?

Any of those. Say who it is from in your story; the gift message can be signed by one parent, both, or the whole family, siblings and grandparents included.

Who sings it?

You choose the genre, the mood and a male voice, a female voice or a duet. We can't imitate a real artist, but you can describe the feel you are after, such as a quiet acoustic ballad.

How fast can I have it?

Two versions are usually ready a few minutes after you send your story, and the downloads unlock as soon as you pay. You can also schedule the gift email for her birthday morning.

What if the first versions aren't right?

Don't pay yet. Edit a line, the mood or the voice and two new versions come back; the app shows how many rounds remain. After payment, purchases are final except as our refund policy describes.

Can it go in a slideshow, a wedding video or a post?

Yes. You get an MP3, a lyric video (MP4) and a lyrics PDF, and once you pay we transfer our rights in the song to you, so it can be used in videos, slideshows and posts.

Does it work for a quinceañera or a sweet sixteen?

Yes. Mention the occasion and her age in your story, and choose an upbeat style if she wants to dance to it with her friends or her court.

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A father's worn brown dress shoes and a bride's ivory satin heels side by side on a wooden dance floor after the party, string lights glowing behind (AI photo)

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