Songs for mom and son wedding dances,and one written just for you two
Thirty songs for the mother–son dance, sorted by feel, plus a plan your DJ can follow. Or tell us your story and we write the one song nobody has danced to before.
Six dances, five songs each, listed by title and artist. Read them out loud together; the right one tends to make one of you stop talking.
No. 1
The tissue-box classics
Slow · timeless
For a room that loves an old favorite and a mom who will cry either way.
1Because You Loved Me · Celine Dion
2Through the Years · Kenny Rogers
3The Wonder of You · Elvis Presley
4Moon River · Andy Williams
5You Are So Beautiful · Joe Cocker
No. 2
Sung from her side
A mother's voice
Words a mom would say to her boy, if she could get through them without crying.
1Lullaby · The Chicks
2Somebody's Hero · Jamie O'Neal
3I'll Stand by You · The Pretenders
4Hero · Mariah Carey
5The Prayer · Celine Dion & Andrea Bocelli
No. 3
In his words
A son's thank-you
Thank-you songs written from the child's side, whoever sings them. For a groom who would rather not give a speech.
1A Song for Mama · Boyz II Men
2Mom · Garth Brooks
3Mother Like Mine · The Band Perry
4Coat of Many Colors · Dolly Parton
5I'll Be There · The Jackson 5
No. 4
Soul and Motown warmth
Warm · swaying
Easy to sway to, even for a groom who swears he has two left feet.
1Just the Two of Us · Grover Washington Jr. & Bill Withers
2O-o-h Child · The Five Stairsteps
3You Are the Sunshine of My Life · Stevie Wonder
4Greatest Love of All · Whitney Houston
5Mama Used to Say · Junior
No. 5
The surprise switch
Starts slow, ends loud
Have the DJ cut to one of these halfway through, and watch the groomsmen run for the floor.
1Your Mama Don't Dance · Loggins & Messina
2Mamma Mia · ABBA
3Twist and Shout · The Beatles
4Ice Ice Baby · Vanilla Ice
5Don't Stop Me Now · Queen
No. 6
Not only for the wedding
Her birthday · Mother's Day
Mom and son songs for the other days she deserves a turn around the kitchen.
1Mama · Spice Girls
2Mama Said · The Shirelles
3Remember Me · Miguel & Natalia Lafourcade
4Superwoman · Alicia Keys
5Thank You for Being a Friend · Andrew Gold
No. 7
Line seven is still blank
Every song on this card was written for somebody else's mother. Yours can carry her name, the nickname he had at six and the story only the two of you tell.
Where it falls in the evening, who decides, and what to hand the DJ. Send this to whoever is running the night.
Ten minutes before the ceremony
Where it lands in the evening
Grand entrance
The couple's first dance
Bride and her father
Groom and his mother
The floor opens
Some couples move both parent dances to after dinner, or share one song so both pairs dance at once. Either way, tell the DJ which.
Who picks the song
Usually the groom, after a quiet word with his mom. Plenty of mothers ask to choose it themselves and keep it secret. Stuck between two? Play both in the car after the suit fitting; the one neither of you can talk over is the answer.
Decide whose words it is
Female voiceHer side
What she would tell him on his wedding day: proud, a little teary, full of advice he will pretend not to need.
Male voiceHis side
The thank-you he never quite said: the late pickups, the second jobs, the faith she had in him.
DuetBoth of them
Verses trade back and forth, and the chorus belongs to both. It sounds like a conversation.
Five things to hand your DJ
1The file
An MP3 in their inbox a week ahead, plus a copy on your phone.
2The start
From the very top, or a few bars in, once you reach the middle of the floor.
3The fade
Two to three minutes is plenty. Name the line where the fade begins.
4The switch
If you want a surprise, the exact moment and the upbeat song to cut to.
5The intro
How the MC should call you up, with both names spelled out.
A two-and-a-half-minute shape
0:00Walk out together
1:30Optional switch
2:30Fade, then a hug
A guide, not a rule: your DJ will find the clean spots.
Three surprises that land
The switch
Halfway through, the slow song cuts to something loud and the groomsmen pile on.
The cut-in
His grandmother, a stepmom or the aunt who helped raise him taps in for the last chorus.
The slideshow
Childhood photos play on a screen behind you, from first steps to this morning.
Neither was written for a mother and son. Play them to hear how real stories turn into verses, and the moment a name is sung.
Ordinary Days
Written for Emma, from her husband Daniel, ten years married
Ballad
Romantic
Female voice
Play Ordinary Days0:00 / 4:24
Ballad
Celebrate You, Maya
Written for Maya turning thirty, from her best friend
Pop
Happy
Male voice
Play Maya's song0:00 / 2:48
Pop
Both are real orders. The names you hear are the ones their buyers typed in.
From the dance floor
Moms and sons who danced to their own song
Practice week
We rehearsed in Mom's living room all week. By Friday I'd stopped stepping on her feet and she'd stopped crying at the second verse. Mostly.
Marcus T.Columbus, OH
“A surprise from Mom
My son had no idea. The DJ announced a mystery song, and when his name came up in the first verse he just stopped and held on.
Renee P.Tulsa, OK
Before the dance
I played it for her at our table first, one earbud, so she wouldn't fall apart on the dance floor. She fell apart at the table instead, then we danced.
Jordan A.Sacramento, CA
“Duet version
We picked a duet, so the verses go back and forth between us. The bridge says his wife's name, and she was the first one up clapping.
Lorraine K.Mobile, AL
Grandma cut in
Halfway through, my grandmother tapped in. We'd put her in the last verse, so she heard her own name while dancing with me. Mom lost it.
Elijah W.Raleigh, NC
“Mother–son dance
My dad died when I was twelve and Mom raised three of us on her own. The song says so, gently, and the room ended up proud instead of sad.
Andre M.Newark, NJ
Her 65th birthday
We had it made for the wedding, then played it again for her birthday at the kitchen table. Same tears, much smaller venue.
Chris B.Boise, ID
“Handing it to the DJ
Sent the DJ the MP3 and one note: fade after the second chorus. Just long enough for the photographer, and short enough that I didn't cry. Much.
Tom R.Madison, WI
How it works
From a few memories to your dance
Most families finish the story part in one sitting. The song itself takes minutes.
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Step 1
Tell us about you two
Her name, his name, who the song is from, and a few moments: the kitchen, the car rides, the advice he finally took.
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Step 2
Hear two full versions
AI writes the lyrics in about a minute; a minute or two later, two complete songs play with a light watermark.
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Step 3
Adjust before paying
Change a line, the mood or the voice and get fresh versions. The page shows how many rounds you have left.
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Step 4
Hand it to the DJ
Pay once, download the MP3 and the lyric video, and send the gift page to anyone who can't be there.
What it costs
One dance, one song, one price
You pay once, and only after both versions have played all the way through.
You are not charged a cent before you have listened.
FAQ
Questions about the mother–son dance
Most of these arrive a few weeks before the wedding.
Who usually picks the mother–son dance song?
Most often the groom, sometimes after asking his mom; plenty of mothers choose it themselves as a surprise. With an original song, either of you can start the order and the other doesn't have to know.
How long should the mother–son dance be?
Two to three minutes suits most rooms. You can't set an exact length for an original song, but you hear both versions in full before paying, and your DJ can fade it at whichever line you choose.
Can the song be sung from the mother's side, or the son's?
Yes. Pick a Female voice for her message to him, a Male voice for his thank-you, or a Duet to trade verses. Say whose words they are in your story and the lyrics follow. We can't imitate a real artist.
Is there enough time if the wedding is soon?
Usually, yes. Lyrics take about a minute, two full versions follow a minute or two later, and the files unlock as soon as you pay. Leave time for a round of changes and for getting the MP3 to your DJ.
Can the lyrics mention the bride, a stepdad, or his late father?
Yes. Name whoever belongs in the story: his bride, the stepdad who showed up, a grandmother. If his father has passed, tell us how you would like him remembered, in a single line or a whole verse, and the song can still feel like a celebration.
How does the DJ play it?
After payment you download an MP3, which any DJ setup can play. Send it a week ahead, keep a copy on your phone, and tell them where to start, fade or switch.
Can we use it in the wedding video?
Yes. Once you pay, we transfer our rights in your song to you, so it can go in your wedding film, the reception slideshow or a post. You also get a vertical lyric video (MP4).
